“Evidence doesn’t always convince people of
the truth, especially when the lie is what they prefer.” Daniel Black, “Perfect Peace”
In Daniel Black’s
“Perfect Peace” a southern black women, Emma Jean Perfect, has six sons and
desperately wants a daughter. When her
seventh-born is yet another boy, she names him Perfect and raises the kid as a
girl. On the child’s eighth birthday
Emma Jean tells Perfect: “You was born a boy. I made you a girl. But that ain’t what
you was supposed to be. So, from now on, you gon’ be a boy. It’ll be a little
strange at first, but you’ll get used to it, and this’ll be over after while.”
On the fifth
anniversary of Michael Jackson’s death tourists visited the home on 23oo
Jackson where he grew up. Monica Yassen
recalled as a girl hearing his music in Sierra Leone, West Africa. Paul
Brattwood, who sported a large tattoo of the “King of Pop” on his arm, listened
to Jackson while growing up in England.
He told Post-Trib reporter
Michael Gonzalez: “I think affection for
Michael will be there forever, like John Lennon.”
After receiving,
via interlibrary loan (from Allen County Public Library in Fort Wayne), “Bodies
of Evidence: The Practice of Queer Oral History,” edited by Nan Alamilla Boyd
and Horacio N. Roque Ramirez, I turned to John D’Emilio’s Afterword. I was aware of D’Emilio’s “Sexual Politics,
Sexual Communities: The Making of a Homosexual Minority in the United States,
1940-1970,” and that he’d touted Anne Balay’s “Steel Closets” as a
groundbreaking study of steelworkers.
Starting grad school in 1971, the year after I received my PhD at
Marylandhe admired scholars who studied history from the bottom up but, like
me, was not much exposed to oral history. Researching the Mattachine Society, he
realized that oral interviews were essential to understanding that homophile organization.
As the title (“If I Knew Then . . .”) of D’Emilio’s essay suggests, he, again like
me, made a number of missteps but in time balanced an instinctive,
nondirective, open-ended approach with a deft touch at steering conversations
in directions germane to his purposes.
From California cousin
Sue Stone wrote: “Being from McKeesport, the steel industry was
always close. Mother and every other McKeesporter I knew bemoaned the fact the
mills ran day and night for the war effort, often repaired haphazardly to
continue production. Then after the war, the U.S. rebuilt Germany and Japan
with new, efficient mills that made it more cost effective to import their
product than to buy U.S. produced steel. I never questioned if their ideas were
historically accurate, but McKeesport went from a solid town to a horrible
place with abandoned mills and decaying buildings. I saw beautiful estates
become run down multifamily homes. I am glad you are saving the history of the
Calumet's experience. There is much to learn from history.”
I’ve probably met
cousin Sue about four times in my entire life and probably wouldn’t recognize
her on the street, but we’ll both be at a family reunion next month in
Lancaster, PA. She’s a couple years
older than I. In the summer of 1954 my
family traveled to Pittsburgh to visit Vic’s brother Tom (Sue’s dad) and sister
Aurie, and to this prepubescent kid Sue looked hot. I think we became kissing cousins, but that
might just have been a fantasy. Her dad
was the second-born son. During the
Great Depression older brother Jim hitchhiked to California and ultimately
became a millionaire in the canned tuna business. Tom was left to deal with shell-shocked
parents who nearly lost everything and caught his share of life’s
frustrations. Young brother Vic (my old
man) was able to work his way through college (Pitt), obtain a white-collar
job, and during the 1950s raise a family in a middle-class suburb of
Philadelphia.
above, Cindy Kalberg's mother Ruthie with her mother Susan Seesock Guba; below,Ruthie (r)
Cindy Karlberg may
donate materials to the Archives but first wants to check with relatives. She has numerous photos and memorabilia,
including a Holy Card apparently written in Slovak. Her mother, Ruthie Guba,
grew up in Glen Park at 3880 Jefferson.
I discussed the
postwar years in the Calumet Region and Vee-Jay records with Steve McShane’s
class for about 80 minutes Tuesday afternoon and then condensed the lesson down
to 55 minutes for Steve’s two Senior College sessions the next morning. Reading political prisoner Kathryn Hyndman’s
eulogy to her former cellmate Willa Mae and describing Pookie Hudson singing
“Goodnight, Sweetheart” to a critically ill Vivian Carter in a nursing home, I
teared up, as I knew I would. Senior
College director Sandra Hall Smith came in the room about that time and teared
up, too. Steve did an excellent job
reciting from Stanley Stanish’s diary, which we have in the Archives, pronouncing
such names as Tekla Kasprzychi Grandma Rybicki, and St. Adelbert’s Church.
from the Stanish family album, circa 1951-2
Many of the readings
that students read drew chuckles, none more than Bill Figueroa describing
maternal grandmother who came to live with them when in her 80’s. Figueroa wrote:
“My father thought she came to die. She stayed for 20 years. She smoked homegrown marijuana every morning
and had a daily shot of wine. She made a
lot of money crocheting initials and designs on handkerchiefs.”
Other than
Figueroa’s remembrances, there is hardly any mention of elderly people in my
“Age of Anxiety” issue. Median age in the
Region then was much lower and included many baby boomers. Mary Wainman, a good Catholic, raised ten
kids and, like my mom, gave them a tablespoons of cod liver oil at
breakfast. Ugh! How I remember. When several Wainman children came down with
scarlet fever, the Board of health quarantined the house for a month. Mary’s husband stayed in the basement and got
in and out to work through a window.
To ingratiate
myself with the seniors, I gave out free copies of Steel Shavings volume 41 (2011), my pink issue, and pointed out
photos of Vivian Carter, the Spaniels, and their lead singer Pookie Hudson. One cover photo shows Anne and Leah Balay at
a Gay Pride parade, another Gary outgoing and incoming mayors Rudy Clay and
Karen Freeman Wilson. I dedicated volume
41 to IUN’s late physical plant wunderkind Dianne Cutler, whose daughter was as
petite as Dianne was powerfully built.
Felled by cancer, Dianne kept the diagnosis to herself until almost the
bitter end.
One woman recalled
having Marie Edwards, whose reminiscences of buying a 1947 Nash drew smiles, as
a teacher both at Lew Wallace and for an IUN Political Science course. Another
woman with a copy of “Gary’s First Hundred Years” read this poem by “E.Z.
Stuff” that I found in the Post-Trib’s
“Flue Dust column during the 1920s, when the city’s population doubled to
100,000 in ten years.
“She is just
a maiden,
With years
not heavy laden,
The prospects
of her future sure are great.
So like the
bantam rooster,
We will work
to crow and boost her
Till she’s
the largest city in the state.”
For once the
cafeteria was packed, as it was visiting day for incoming students and their
parents. I sat across from two Portage
graduates accompanied by their grandmother, who said she had been a Nursing
student 30 years ago and remembered History professor Ron Cohen.
After the rain
ceased, Dave’s family got a couple hours in at Seven Peaks Waterpark before
arriving at the condo for tacos and corn on the cob. Dave asked what I thought of America’s
chances in the World Cup, and I said that surrendering a last-second goal to
Portugal reminded me of the bad karma that befell the Cubs in 2003 after a fan,
Steve Bartman, snatched a foul ball away from leftfielder Moises Alou that
prevented the Cubs from going to the World Series. Uruguay’s Luis Suarez bit an
Italian opponent and will certainly be banned from the tournament. Suarez has done the same thing twice before in
the heat of combat. I’ll never forget
watching Mike Tyson bite part of Evander Holyfield’s ear off in 1997.
Jeff Manes started
off a piece on former farmer and teacher and present-day pastor Derald Ailes by
stating: “He’s my annual conservative and
Chicago Cubs fan to be interviewed for this column. It’s best to kill two birds with one
stone.” Not only witty but up front,
as every scholar or journalist should be.
Despite their political disagreements, Manes ended by writing, “Derald
Ailes is a good man.” Back home, Manes
found the Kankakee River dangerously on the rise. The outdoor dining area at Marti’s Place is
under water.
above, Marti's Place by Jeff Manes; below, Marquette Park lagoon by Anne Balay
I surprised see a pic of me, my dad Stanley, and my brother Ron nest to our 50 Plymouth. Also ap pic of Ron and my mom, Connie on the swing on vacation in WI. Ken Stanish
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