“Ethnic enclaves made Gary. I never realized how many nationalities there
were until I came here.” Carrol Vertrees
Cindy Karlberg’s relatives
put together a 46-page manuscript entitled “Memories of the Family” that
includes personal reminiscences of Cindy’s maternal grandparents Michael and
Susanna Guba. Michael was born in 1884
in the town of Stancya in Austria-Hungary.
Susanna Seesock was born eight years later in the Slovakian village of
Cigelka. After coming to America, she
initially lived in Pittsburgh and Chicago before moving to Gary, where she met
Michael, whom family members called Aupo.
After they got married on October 25, 1913, at St. Michael’s Byzantine
Slovanic Rite Church at 410 W. Thirteenth Avenue, the first of their nine
children, Michael, Jr., was born exactly nine months later, on July 25, 1914. Aupo, who worked at U.S. Steel, built the
family’s first home at 1310 Buchanan.
Cindy’s Aunt Margaret recalled that it was painted orange with white
trim. Margaret remembered a collie dog
Bobby and a mean goose that bit her leg.
She’d bring home books from a library at 15th and Madison for
Aupo to read – in English, Slovak, Russian, and Hungarian. He also loved jigsaw puzzles and to
sing.
Margaret recalled: “Before the cold winter months came, my
parents worked together stringing dried mushrooms and peppers along side the
wall in the small [sand floor] basement my father built. I remember the parents preparing pickles and
setting them in a large barrel. My Dad stored potatoes, and I remember sitting
on the basement steps wrapping apples for the winter.”
Susanna was a good
cook who loved to bake. Margaret
recalled: “My mother was very proud of
her kitchen. She always wore a clean
apron when she did her baking, and she had all her pans so very clean – so was
her kitchen. There was nothing tastier
in the morning as we were getting up than the smell of freshly baked
bread. For breakfast we would have a
slice of bread with butter and jelly.” Susanna
did the laundry (hanging clothes outside to dry in good weather and in the
attic in winter) and also sewed.
Margaret recalled that she had “a
foot pedal sewing machine and made us pajamas and we would sew the buttons on
them.” Susanna was also the family disciplinarian. Her dad never spanked her, but Susanna did,
mostly for fighting with sisters.
Margaret’s younger
sister Marion, born in 1922, said they had a nice back yard with a garden and a
shanty with one side for coal and the other for chickens. U.S. Steel made land in East Gary available
for garden plots, and most Saturdays Marion would go there with her dad. She recalled: “Ma would pack us a lunch, and we’d take a wagon [that Aupo had
made] and walk all the way to Clay
Street.”
The Gubas lived
near Dixie Dairy, and Marion sometimes watched employees bottle the milk. “Just
before we left,” she remembered, “they
would always give us a small bottle of milk.” At a bakery on Grant owned by two Lithuanian
brothers Marion and siblings would watch bread and rolls go into large ovens
and each get a free roll. Marion’s
brother Michael, Jr., was an usher at the Palace Theater and would come home
with potato chips or caramel candies for his little sisters. A neighbor, Mrs. Danielovich, would give the
girls homemade root beer and baloney and let them look at the funny pages (comic
strips) in her newspaper.
After the family
moved to Glen Park, Marion noted, the family started attending St. Mark’s, but
for holidays they usually went back to St. Michael’s. Aupo became an American citizen in 1936, a
source of pride for the entire family. Daughter
Margaret, 17 at the time, described him as a slim man about 5 feet five inches
tall with black hair and grey eyes. Like
many families during the Great Depression, the Gubas struggled to get by. Aupo didn’t believe in government relief
(although his eldest child found work with the Civilian Conservation
Corps). He resoled everyone’s shoes,
friends as well as family. It seemed
that every time the Gubas managed to get on top of their bills, one of the kids
would fall ill, Agnes with tonsillitis, for instance, or Ruthie with asthma.
Agnes Guba, born in
1927, recalled playing simple games at home such as Old maid and Pick Up
Sticks. Her dad made a pretend stove by
turning a cardboard box upside down and painting burners on the top and an oven
on the side. For a play cupboard Susanna
put a curtain around an orange crate.
Cindy’s mother
Ruth, born in 1933, was the youngest of nine children and just 15 when her
mother, Susanna, died at age 56. Aupo,
Ruth’s dad, died in 1956 at age 71. In a
statement about her parents Ruth recalled:
“I can see
myself going on the streetcar with [Mom] visiting relatives or friends in
downtown Gary from Glen Park where we lived in a pretty brick house. I think back and see her baking and cooking
big dinners and eating in the dining room.
She had long, deep brown hair (very soft), and I can see myself combing
it with a large white comb and putting it in a bun or braids that went around
her head. She made clothes, and I can
see myself standing on a chair in the dining room. Mom would cut out the armhole and it would
always tickle me – I would be afraid she would cut me but she never did.
Sometimes my
father would go to church twice on Sundays.
He would go to the Broadway dime store and always brought something home
for me. He did all the grocery shopping
for my Mom. My father was a gentle man –
I never saw him lose his temper. He was
always working around the house fixing something. He made a swing and hung it in the basement
for us. I can still see the scooter he
made for me out of a wooden crate. I was
very proud of it.”
As rich as the
remembrances of Susanna and Aupo’s children are concerning their home life,
they wish they knew more about their ancestors in the Old Country or how and
why they emigrated to America. They are
not even certain of their ethnicity since the areas of Austria-Hungary where
their parents were from contained Slovaks, Carpatho-Rusyns, Hungarians,
Russians, Ruthenians, and others.
Historians would like to know more about Aupo’s work experiences in the
mill and social life outside the family.
Still, the materials that the family donated to the Calumet Regional
Archives are a treasure trove for understanding the tight bonds that existed
within working-class immigrant families.
Back to the
present: Alissa spent Saturday with us.
I excused myself to watch the Brazil consolation match with the
Netherlands (another disaster for the home team, which lost 3-0), and Dave’s
family came over for tacos and spring rolls.
After dark Dave shot off the fireworks left over from July 4. Joining us were neighbors Austin (going into
eleventh grade at Chesterton) and Schuyler (a server at nearby Applebee’s and
owner of a unique pink VW).
Sunday we saw the
final Chicago appearance of “The Last Ship” at Bank of America Theatre. The musical dealt with the decline of the
shipbuilding industry in Sting’s hometown of Newcastle, England, something
similar to the loss of industrial jobs in America’s rustbelt. The musical numbers. written by Sting, were
terrific, and after cast members took a bow, there was a stir, and Sting
emerged on stage. After thanking everyone
associated with the production and the supportive Chicago audiences, he sang
the title song, with cast members joining in.
It was very moving and a thrill to see Sting so emotional after years of
lethargy. Afterwards, we had dinner at a
bistro with Dick and Cheryl Hagelberg and their niece Abby.
Drummer Tommy
Ramone, the last survivor of punk rock’s pioneer band, died at age 65. Inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame
12 years ago, the four guys from Queens called themselves the Ramones because it
was the name Paul McCartney used when he checked into hotels. “I Want To Be Sedated” and “Blitzkrieg Bop”
were part of Dave’s band LINT’s repertoire, and four of us won a TV at an IUN
air band contest performing to “Teenage Lobotomy.” Our secret: the song lasted barely two
minutes, while our competition (as Prince and Sister Sledge) wore out their
welcome doing longer songs.
I watched an
excellent documentary about David McCullough, who considers himself more of a
storyteller than historian. Before
tackling Harry Truman and John Adams he wrote books on the Johnstown Flood and
the Brooklyn Bridge. His dad was a
Republican who feared the country would go to hell after Truman upset Dewey in
1948. Thirty years later, his old man
bemoaned the nation’s future with Jimmy Carter at the helm and told his son he
wished “Old Harry Truman” were in the White House.
Eight days ago,
somebody killed Gary police officer Jeffrey Westerfield, 47, in his patrol car
after he responded to a domestic disturbance call. Friends say he was a model cop and family man
with four daughters and father figure to his fiancé’s five children. He lived on Gary’s far west side, and
neighbors called him the “Mayor of Black Oak.” Following a two-hour memorial service at
Genesis Center, a huge funeral motorcade proceeded down Broadway. Standing on the corner of Thirty-Fifth and Broadway
with Steve McShane and Chuck Gallmeier, I found it very moving. Police cars from Illinois, Michigan,
Kentucky, downstate Illinois and virtually every community in Northwest Indiana
took part, including representatives from Chesterton, Portage, and Valparaiso. Flags at IUN are at half-staff, and campus
police joined the procession or secured the route. A sudden downpour scattered the crowd; as
Sheriff Roy Dominguez said on the day Chief Gary Martin’s body was laid to rest,
the heavens wept.
NWI Times photos by John Luke
Several other
grisly homicides occurred recently. A man
killed his 80 year-old mother in the hospital and then stabbed to death his 88
year-old father in their home. In
Merrillville the boyfriend of an airline flight attendant’s daughter killed 54
year-old DeCarol Deloney-Cain and stuffed her in the trunk of a car before
abandoning the vehicle. In the
Westerfield investigation no charges have been filed, but a person of interest
is in custody.
At Gino’s for the
History Book Club I sat with Judge Lorenzo Arredondo, Jim Pratt, and Joseph
Gomeztagle (above), who is teaching a Fall Public Affairs course at IUN for SPEA. He asked about Anne Balay, whom he met two
meetings ago, and we talked about how tragic it was that many Americans want to
deport the children from Central America who have entered our country without
official papers. Everyone missed Joy
Anderson, whose mother recently passed away.
Peter Thayer had fun with James Watson memoir “As I Knew Them.” I restricted my remarks to fun anecdotes in
the book except when Thayer criticized TR’s handling of the anthracite coal
strike (siding with the owners who felt property rights were more important
than the public needs) and extolled William Howard Taft’s tenure as Chief
Justice. I pointed out that it was
unconscionable for him to have stymied (in Bailey
v. Drexel Furniture Company, 1922) Congressional efforts to get rid of
child labor.
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