Showing posts with label Carley Kolsch. Show all posts
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Monday, July 22, 2019

Wishlist

“I wish I was a messenger and all the news was good,
I wish I was the full moon shining off a Camaro’s hood.”
    “Wishlist,” Pearl Jam
 59-year veteran steelworker John Gold; photos by Jerry Davich
Jerry Davich wrote a Post-Tribunecolumn on steelworkers who put in 50 years at the mill, despite the dirty, unhealthy, dangerous environment, forced overtime, and constant shift work that, as one veteran exclaimed, took ten years out of your life. Why would someone do that, he wondered. Some feared they’d soon die if they retired.  Others, proud to be called steelworkers, claimed to like the workplace camaraderie and being productive.  Others didn’t have much of a home life and preferred not to be in the house all high wages that paid for maintaining a middle-class lifestyle, including the ability to send children and grandchildren to college.  Replying the Davich’s column, Carla Waters Spencer stressed the economic security a mill job provided her family: My dad worked at US Steel for 52 years in the coke plant, retiring after my mom was diagnosed with cancer because she needed his help at home. Mom and Dad were able to raise the four of us kids, pretty much on his income, and we wanted for nothing.”Valerie Dixon commented:
  My dad worked at USS for 46 years! He started out in a dirty section and moved to an overhead crane in shipping at the sheet and tin mill; loading coils. He had health problems for as long as I can remember; one being thyroid problems. They didn’t use hearing protection back then either and the damage was done by the time he started wearing ear plugs. The shifts they had them work were stressful: 1 week days,1 week 4 to 12’s, 1 week midnights; alternating until a vacation. They did have great vacation benefits back then; 13 weeks every so many years. Traveling the country during those paid weeks off were the best childhood memories.
Cindy C. Bean posted a photo of hubby Larry posing with Jerry Davich’s “Lost Gary” at Sam’s Club and one she took of a window in an abandoned church. 
 Cubs fan Eddie Vedder of Pearl Jam
I’m approaching my golden anniversary being associated with IU Northwest.  I still go in to the office four days a week and keep active intellectually guest lecturing and writing a blog.  I am vain enough to believe that my Steel Shavingsmagazine and work with the Calumet Regional Archives has lasting value. There are no exotic vacation spots or adventurous feats on my wish or bucket list beyond continuing what I do now, including travel to scholarly conferences.  Like Eddie Vedder of Pearl Jam, in 2016 I witnessed the Chicago Cubs win the World Series for the first time in our lifetimes, near the top of both our wish lists. Recently, Vedder talked about his love affair with the Cubbies:
  It probably started because my grandpa took me to Wrigley Field. The first day I was about 4 and a half or 5, we saw the Pirates play the Cubs. When we came up the bleachers, you could smell the stench of one of those white capsules in the piss thing. That was the smell, mix it with hot dog, and walking up the ramp and I could hear the pop of the gloves, it was a Wizard of Oz moment to see that field for the first time.  It was the greenest green I ever, the whitest white, Jose Cardenal, the coolest afro. That moment I feel something inside changed, and a fire was lit. 
 Brandy Halladay at Hall of fame ceremony
Inducted into the Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, NY, were six worthy candidates, including Cub reliever Lee Smith, White Sox clutch hitter Harold Baines, and Phillies ace Ray “Doc” Holladay, who died two years ago when his small plane crashed into the Gulf of Mexico.  He’d been suffering from depression and addiction to pain medication and may have taken his own life.  Joining Philadelphia in 2010, Holladay pitched a perfect game that May and won postseason contests against Cincinnati and San Francisco, the eventual World Series champs.  Lee Smith thanked his Castor, Louisiana, school principal for buying equipment his family couldn’t afford, enabling him to play baseball. Yankee closer Mariano Rivera, the Hall of Fame’s first unanimous selection and final speaker, joked that he’s always the last one called on.
 army troops march down Broadway in Gary during 1919 steel strike
Robert Blaszkiewicz’s mention of the 1919 Chicago Race Riot reminded me that I taught an entire course about that fateful year and used William M. Tuttle’s “Race Riot: Chicago in the Red Summer of 1919.”  Racial disturbances also erupted in Washington, D.C., Omaha, Nebraska, Tulsa, Oklahoma, and throughout the South.  Required reading included Robert K. Murray’s “Red Scare: A Study in National Hysteria” and David Brody’s “Labor in Crisis,” about a nationwide steel strike during which army troops invaded Gary at pro-business Mayor William Hodges’s invitation, jailing union leaders, and crushing the strike.   The class read the coming-of-age novel “Winesburg, Ohio” by Sherwood Anderson and Gene Smith’s “When the Cheering Stopped: The Last Years of Woodrow Wilson,” which details the President’s incapacitation during the Versailles Treaty ratification fight. I offered the course 55 years after these events, which seemed like ancient history – about the same number of years past as the March on Washington and John F. Kennedy’s assassination. An older student recalled listening to news of Charles Lindbergh’s 1927 solo flight across the Atlantic.
Momma Mia! cast: Kolsch front, middle; Romersberger back, third from left
Toni and I thoroughly enjoyed “Momma Mia!” at Memorial Opera House.  We first saw the play in Las Vegas and enjoyed both the movie starring Meryl Streep and its sequel, featuring an iconic cameo by Cher singing “Fernando.”  The best numbers were the upbeat ones involving the entire cast, including lively dancers led by long-legged Jordyn Romersberger (an instructor at Mirror Image Studio) and athletic, blond-wigged VU grad Carley Kolsch.  Bobbie Sue Kvachkoff shined as Tanya and Mark Williams as rich Englishman Harry, one of momma Donna’s three former lovers.  That fling was his last heterosexual affair, Harry confided.

“We lived poor as dump dogs,”a character declares in John Updike’s “My Father on the Vege of Disgrace,” a great expression I’d never heard before. The short story, from “Licks of Love” (2000), takes place in a town west of Philadelphia not unlike my hometown, Fort Washington, six decades before:
    In this present day of strip malls and towns that are mere boundaries on a developer’s map, it is hard to imagine the core of authority that existed then in small towns, at least in the view of a child – the power of righteousness and enforcement that radiated from the humorless miens of the central men.  They were not necessarily officials; our town was too small to have many of them.  But certain local merchants, a clergyman or two, the undertaker whose green-awninged mansion dominated the main intersection, across from a tavern and a drugstore, not to mention the druggist and the supervising principal of the school, projected a potential for condemnation and banishment.
One of Midge’s chief concerns concerning my aberrant youthful behavior could be summed up by the warning, “What would neighbors think?”  When I came home from college, she’d always drag me to church until I showed up with a beard.  That Sunday, church was never mentioned. Unlike Toni, whose Catholic upbringing fostered feelings of guilt, for me the emotion was shame, not so much what I did but how it would look.
Time’s Lucy Feldman interviewed Richard Russo, about his new novel, “Chances Are.” Responding to a critic who unfairly called him a misogynist, Russo said, “I have to admit, having been raised a Catholic, my first instinct when anybody says anything bad about me is always to say, ‘God, is that true?’”   Attending the University of Arizona in 1969 at the time of the first draft lottery, he recalled joking around with friends initially and then everyone drifting away to call home. His number was 332, which he gave to a character that also inherited some of his idiosyncrasies.  Ruminating over his own fate, Russo stated: “There are certain times when it’s good to be industrious, but that night it was good to be lucky.”  He elaborated:
 There are certain things that are fated, that no matter how hard we try are beyond our ability to alter or shape. There are certain things over which we do have agency.  And then of course there is dumb luck.  But suppose you put me in the exact same place where I started, with the same parents, living on the same street and you give me 99 more tries.  There would be 99 different outcomes.
 
The town of Highlight’s Pride Day celebration featured entertainment (including Eve Bottando playing accordion), interesting displays of all sorts, and spontaneous outbursts of enthusiasm among the LGBTQ participants and supporters. One couple getting married changed in a dressing room along with drag queen who made a big fuss over them.

Dave is attending a conference for teachers in San Antonio, a place I wouldn’t mind visiting that’s evidently been well-governed by Henry Cisneros during the 1980s and, between 2009 and 2014, Julian Castro, whom I hope is on the 2020 Democratic Presidential ticket. 
 

On Jeopardy nobody knew what Kurt Vonnegut novel time traveler Billy Pilgrim was in (easy, “Slaughterhouse Five”) or, on Final Jeopardy, which landmark African explorer David Livingston discovered. I figured it was either Mount Kilimanjaro or Victoria Falls and correctly guessed the latter. The guesses included Mount Kilimanjaro, sources of the Nile, and Timbuctoo.

Tuesday, July 17, 2018

Do You Realize?

“Life goes fast
It’s hard to make the good things last
The sun doesn’t go down
It’s just an illusion caused by the world spinning round”
                            “Flaming Lips, “Do You Realize?”

Listening to music on WXRT from 1974, I was unfamiliar with many selections since back then I was listening to “Top 40” fare on WLS, but I did sing along to “Takin’ Care of Business,” “The Bitch Is Back, and “Bad Company.”  I enjoyed Brian Ferry’s rendition of “The In Crowd,” recorded ten years earlier by Dobie Gray and the jazz group Ramsey Lewis Trio. WXRT touted that evening’s Taste of Chicago Flaming Lips concert, which Marianne and Missy Brush attended.  I put on the Lips’ “The Soft Bulletin” (1999) CD, which contains “The Spiderbite Song” and “Waiting for a Superman.”
 above, Wayne Coyle of Flaming Lips; below, Flaming Lips fans
In a Time review of “Eighth Grade” was the acronym ASMR, which stands for Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response.  The reference was to online videos evidently popular with teens and meant to relax viewers. Examples are gentle whispering, lip smacking, nail tapping, and rhythmic hand movements.  I hope “Eighth Grade” comes to Portage or Valpo.  In all likelihood, it’s more sophisticated than current hits “Ant-Man and the Wasp” and “Hotel Transylvania 3: Summer Vacation.”
At Memorial Opera House VU student  Carley Kolsch starred as Elle Woods in the lively musical “Legally Blonde,” based on the 2001 Reese Witherspoon movie.  The far-fetched plot has a California sorority cheerleader being accepted to Harvard Law School.  The boyfriend she wanted to impress turns out to be more shallow than she, once she gains self-confidence.  Westville theater teacher Erin Sharpe played lesbian law student Enid; two minor characters danced and kissed passionately once exposed as gay lovers.  There were cameo canine appearances by tiny Bruiser Woods and huge Rufus MacDonald. In the sold-out audience were bowling buddies Gene Clifford and Dorothy Peterson, who recently returned from a road trip to the Grand Canyon and will soon depart for the Florida Everglades.  “Mamma Mia!” is on the 2019 schedule!
above, Pussy Riot protest; below, Mbappe
 
In Moscow France leading Croatia, 2-1, in the World Cup when four Pussy Riot protestors dressed as law enforcement officials ran onto the field, protesting illegal arrests of dissidents, including Oleg Sentsov, sentenced to 20 years on bogus charges of conspiring to commit terror acts for opposing Russia’s annexation of Crimea from Ukraine.  The TV announcers made no attempt to explain the interruption.  One protester gave 19-year-old French star Kylian Mbappe a double high-five.  A few minutes later Mbappe connected on a brilliant shot from 25 yards, the youngest player to score in the final match since Brazilian soccer god Pele in 1958 at age 17.  Phil, Delia, Alissa, and Josh watched at Grand Rapids Garage Bar and Grill.
Helsinki, Finland was the site of a meeting between Trump and Putin, as well as the scene of anti-Trump protests.  CBS correspondent Major Garrett appeared to be reporting from Market Square, as I recognized Helsinki Cathedral and government buildings in the background.  Dan Rather posted: “The President trusts the word of a former KGB agent over the consensus of the American intelligence community.  This is a shocking reality.  Everyone who excuses Trump’s behavior must answer that now, and when history inevitably judges.”Trump’s refusal to acknowledge Russia’s past and continuing interference in our election process, despite a dozen recent indictments of Russian operatives by the Mueller investigators, produced this diatribe by Ray Smock:
For the first time in American History the United States has TWO presidents: Vladimir Putin and his puppet Donald Trump. This is appalling and unconstitutional. This was not a Summit it was an American capitulation! Do we have ANYONE in Congress who is still an American patriot? Anyone in Congress with Courage? This was grounds for IMPEACHMENT!

According to IUN student Brenda “Kay-Kay” Auxier, Lauren Winicky grew up in Glen Park and was the youngest of three. At age 19 she married Bruce Unland, and they got into bowling as a hobby they could enjoy together. Winicky wrote:
       They joined a Sunday night bowling league at Hobart Lanes and went out and bought bowling shoes the night before. The first week they used house balls and shebowled a 112, the lowest score in the league that night.  Humiliated, she decided to start taking bowling seriously. On Tuesdays and Fridays, she and Bruce worked on their bowling skillsat Hobart Lanes. A few weekslater,they bought their own balls. Since Kay-Kay had trouble keeping her wrist straight, she bought a brace for better ball control.  Seven weekslater, Kay-Kay bowled a 178, a huge accomplishment for the young bowler. 
      What started as a casual hobby turned into a family lifestyle. In the late 70’s and 80’s, Bruce and Kay-Kay found themselves in bowling alleys most nights of the week. Their children competed in youth leagues. Daughter Brenda recalled, “My favorite thing about growing up in the bowling alley was always being around my friends. The regulars up at Hobart Lanes were pretty much family. It was such a great community feeling.”In addition to Sundays at Hobart Lanes, the couple also joined other leagues, which Kay-Kay believes made her a better bowler. She explained, “Every alley will oil their lanes differently. You have to bowl on a lane for a bit to see where you have to place your ball.” 
      Kay-Kay described  reacting to her husband’s first 300: “I could not believe it at first. Then all of a sudden, over the loud speaker, the owner announces that Bruce Unland just bowled a perfect game. He ran over to me and spun me around. I was so happy for him but a bit jealous.Her highest game was a 298. 
Jake and Kay-Kay
      Kay-Kay’s grandson Jake was present for Bruce’s second 300 at Camelot in November of 2004. He and brother Dustin were bowling in a youth league before the adultleague started. Jake recalled: “When I saw my grandpa get his second 300, I knew that I wanted to be just like him. He had gotten pretty big around the area. When he walked into bowling alleys in the region, everybody knew him.”Seeing Jake’s passion for bowling andwatching him improve each weekled Kay-Kay to apply for a bowling coach position at Thomas A. Edison Junior-Senior High School in Hobart. She was hired on the spot. Kay-Kay coached girls bowling at Edison for four years and turned the program around. She said, “When I first got there, the team was not even practicing together. They would practice on their own and an honor system was in place. The first thing I told the girls was that from now on, we practice three times a week as a team.”  Sometimes Jake came to the practices and later bowled varsity for Portage, following in Dustin's footsteps. Her third and fourth year at Edison, they were sectional runners-up. Unfortunately, Kay-Kay had to resign from coaching at Edison when Bruce got sick. “I am so proud to be a part of what that program is today. I have been able to coach so many great kids. It makes my heart warm to know how many lives I have influenced,”Kay-Kaysaid, adding“The whole dynamic changes when you start coaching. You start thinking about strategy. It becomes more than just trying to throw strikes.” 
      Kay-Kay continued to coach Jake through high school. She recalled: “It was hard his senior year because Bruce had passed away the year before.  But we knew that Bruce would be looking down on us and watching us do what we love. In the sectionals Portage upset Michigan City, winning just by one spare. The tension was insane. No one said a word as we watched both teams tie up with one another over and over.”She admits shedding tears when she saw her grandson garner individual honors and his team win the match. 

In Richard Russo’s Bridge of Sighs” Lou Lynch wonders, “Who cares about a single life beyond the one whose task is to live?  Why scan the past for the shapes and meanings it surrenders so reluctantly, if you mean to suppress some and exaggerate others?”  Tess, Lou’s mother, was strong and practical while his dad was a dreamer whom Lou invariably sided with, to the extent that she sometimes believed he didn’t love her. Lou Senior’s had a brother named Declan (Elvis Costello’s given name), who knew Tess during her wild teenage days and whom young Lou rightly regarded as an untrustworthy scamp.In Bridge of Sighs” 
Waterfront Inn before and after fire; Post-Trib photos by Carole Carlson and Craig Lyons
Fire destroyed Waterfront Inn, a former bar and dance hall located in New Chicago on the banks of Deep River just days before the eyesore was scheduled to be demolished to make way for a park. The fire may lead to a more rapid demolition since the site is now a health and safety hazard.  Located in Hobart Township, tiny New Chicago, whose total area is less than one square mile, has fewer than 2,000 residents.  New Chicago’s website contains this information:
New Chicago boasts its own police station, a volunteer fire department, water department, three small parks, one gas station, Pizza Hut, [La Ranchero] Mexican Restaurant, and many other businesses.  Up until 1977 there was one police officer in town and the dispatcher answered the phones from his home day and night. New Chicago has Interstate 80/94 to the North, Route 6 (Ridge Road) to the South, Interstate 65 to the West, and Indiana Route 51 to the East.  We are a small blue-collar community where everyone knows your name.  According to a former barber in town, there were 30 drug store licenses in New Chicago at one time.  During Prohibition, if you had a drug store license, you could set a bottle of aspirin on the shelf, call yourself a drugstore, and sell wine and beer.  It was quite a bootleg place in those days.

Barbara Mort and History student Courtney Nagel communicated by email before they met in person at her home in Chesterton.  Barbara showed Courtney photos of her family, friends, and beloved pets, and provided her with the following information:
       Born on September 1, 1935, Barbara grew up in North Manchester, Indiana.  An only child, she was very close to her maternal grandfather John, who passed on to her his love of horses.  Her grandmother Cora ran a kennel and bred show dogs. Thus, Barbara grew up around horses and dogs.  She could teach a pony to sit and lay down like a dog and got her own horse when just nine.  Soon after high school Barbara got married and by the age of 22 had three children, Penny, Kathy, and Greg.  She went on to have a successful career in banking, eventually rising to the position of vice president.  In 1983, she moved to Chesterton when a bank manager offered her twice the salary she was earning downstate.  She loves to travel and is very active in Rotary.  Her toughest challenges were undergoing a divorce and losing both her daughters to cancer just nine months apart.  She said if she could change anything in her life, she would not have gotten married so early and gone to college instead.  Barbara passed on her love of horses to granddaughter Brogan, who has competed in jumping shows.
      A large part of Barbara’s life involves bridge.  She grew up playing euchre, which uses a 32-card deck (nine through Ace) and involves winning tricks and playing with a partner. She didn’t learn bridge until she and her husband were living in Tampa, Florida.  A military couple taught them on condition that they’d agree to play at least two times a week.  Later Barbara had a boyfriend named Fred who played gin rummy, and Barbara persuaded him to take bridge lessons with her at Woodmar Country Club.  She said that in bridge one never stops learning.  On Tuesday evenings she and bridge partner Kris Prohl compete in duplicate, and most Mondays they get together at her home to practice bidding.  Barbara often makes soup or a salad for the occasion. 

I had another mediocre night at bridge, being too cautious when I should have been bold and vice versa.  One hand, I was in 6 No-Trump and needed either for Diamonds to break 3-3 or, failing that, a Club finesse to succeed.  Diamonds broke 4-2 and Chuck Tomes covered my Club Queen with the King for the setting trick.  Terry Bauer’s daughter arrived in Hong Kong to start a new job just as a typhoon was threatening the island.  I told him that pet birds are popular among Hong Kong residents who lived in tiny apartments.  On TV recently forced I saw a Japanese man forced evacuate his apartment being interviewed and he had a caged bird with him.